The Sloan Chronicles

Making Memories

2012-02-10T20:36:00.000-05:00

WARNING: The following is another picture-heavy post, people! I'm sorry, but the cuteness just won't quit around here. Please, be forewarned!

We took a little trip to Marbles with Mema and PaPa today. The little boys get a membership every year for Christmas and it is one of my favorite outings. Our typical Marbles trip can be bit demanding. With two kiddos each having their own agenda, we are often pulled in two completely different directions with me eventually having to lay down lots more structure and dole out lots more discipline. Today's trip was "awesome-sauce"! With extra hands, the boys were free to roam as they pleased and I could even snap some pictures of the fun. Those extra hands were even more appreciated as it seemed every elementary school in the surrounding umpteen districts decided that Marbles would be a great field trip today! We followed the play time up with some delicious pizza at Mellow Mushroom. Yay for a fun day with Mema and PaPa making memories!

Happy Birthday to You!

2012-02-07T00:01:00.000-05:00

My wonderful hubby has a birthday today. 36 years ago, he made his grand entrance into the world. God already knew 29 years later he'd be mine and I could not be more blessed.

In his honor, I thought I'd post a few pictures from the past. I just couldn't resist the cuteness!

Happy Birthday to my amazing hubby!

You are more than I could have ever dreamed of and I can't wait to see what is yet to come!

AML, AML!

Football and Family

2012-02-05T21:10:00.001-05:00

"Small boys become big men through the influence of big men who care about small boys."

~Anonymous

Praying for my Husband

2012-01-31T14:23:00.001-05:00

This guy rocks my world! I know, I know...cheesy! But, it's true! I'm so thankful for Matt. He is such an amazing husband and father. February is my hubby's birthday month. It's also holds Valentine's Day. So, in the spirit of loving my husband, and going after the best God has for him and our marriage, I'm going to do this...

And, before you comment to tell me--yes, I know, February only has 29 days. I think I'll just double up on his birthday and Valentine's Day and that will take care of that!

It's super duper simple. There is a day-by-day plan that guides you. It gives a brief description of what to pray each day and lists scripture references, as well. If you want to join me, check out the article at Revive Our Hearts and leave a comment so I know who's with me!

Change

2012-01-24T13:59:00.001-05:00

That caution sign for change has been displayed in my head for a good month now. You see, after lots of conversations and lots of prayer, Matt accepted a new position within his company and with this position comes a shift change. My sweet hubby will now be working 4 nights a week. Yes, I said NIGHTS. From 8:30p-7:00a, he will be keeping the bank's phone systems afloat. And, yes, I also said 4. He will only have to work Monday through Thursday.

Of course, with this position comes not only a shift change, but some life change, too! Did I mention that change and I are not good friends?? Change makes me anxious and fretful. As soon as I hear about change, I begin the "what if?" and the "how will we?" questions. I long for routine and sameness. I like predictability and planning. Is it any wonder I thrived as a teacher of children with autism?!?

So, yesterday, with the help of my wonderful ~~interior designer~~ Mama and my wonderful ~~child care provider~~ Daddy, and my absolutely amazing hubby, we tackled the furniture move. Matt has always worked from home and for the past year or so, his office was in our bedroom. With the shift change, that was no longer going to work. After much thought, we made the decision make the toy room (which is actually a sunroom) into an office/toy room. That decision required the rearranging and redistribution of some toys to make space for an office, which is turn required some rearranging of the little boys' room to make space for more toys. Of course, removing Matt's office from our bedroom required some rearranging in that room as well. I guess you could say, there was much rearranging done at our home yesterday and lots of change.

Matt's new position started last night, so at 8:30 he headed off into his office and I sat on the couch having complete control of the TV channels and complete control of the laptop. And, feeling a bit lonely, even though Matt was only 10 feet away in the "office." I made it even harder when I chose to dwell on his absence. Quality time is my love language, friends. But, as I sat there I began to think of the three-day weekends we will now share. I thought of the extra time he'll have with the whole family in the afternoons. I thought of our date night already scheduled and planned for this Friday night. And, I began to change my thinking. I chose to settle in and try to find my new normal nighttime routine. Certainly, I still felt the change.

I heard someone once say, "Just because everything's different, doesn't mean that anything has changed." I like that. The furniture is different. Matt's schedule is different. Our routine is different. But nothing has changed. The big things--the things that matter--haven't changed. We are still family. We are even more committed to one another. God is still in control. He's still faithful. So, this time, I'm facing this head on, taking comfort in the fact that although things are different, nothing has changed.

"For you are my rock and my fortress; therefore for Your name's sake, lead me and guide me." Psalm 31:3

Consignment Sale Blessing

2012-01-19T21:39:00.002-05:00

Now that's a lot of clothes! 36 shirts, 20 shorts, 4 jeans, 4 pants, 2 pjs, 1 swimsuit to be exact. Three boys' entire spring and summer wardrobes laying on my couch; all purchased yesterday at our bi-annual local consignment sale. That doesn't even include the umbrella stroller, Cooshee seat, 3 pairs of shoes, and 4 DVDs we were able to snag as well. The pile is stacked with quality brands like Gap, Old Navy, Gymboree, Abercrombie, Aeropostale, The Children's Place, Hollister, Stride Rite, and New Balance.

We are so thankful for this consignment sale and the women who run it. They are Christian women who desire to glorify God while providing a service that helps me keep my kiddos in the nicest clothes for inexpensive prices! I prayed yesterday, as I was volunteering with the sale before shopping opened, that God would help us be good stewards of the money He had provided us for this sale and He showed Himself faithful. We went over our cash-only budget by 85 cents (Matt had an extra 97 cents in his pocket), and that is without keeping a running total as we went. WE ARE BLESSED!!

I can't wait to see my good looking boys all decked out in their "new" clothes very soon!

Preschool

2012-01-03T14:30:00.000-05:00

I love seeing my children's firsts! You know what I mean...first smile, first time they pull up on the furniture, first steps, first words. Watching my kids grow and learn is such a blessing to me. I am always amazed and humbled that God chose me for this job; this job of parenting Jacob, Eli, and Abel.

Today, I got to see another first. Eli had his first day of preschool. He's attending a two-day-a-week, halfday preschool at a local church. I'm so excited for him, but at the same time, I'm a little sad.

He gets to learn and do so many things that I couldn't offer him here at home--school routines, playing with others, working in a group situation, making friends, and responding to authority other than Matt and me! Those are fabulous benefits for him that prepare him for "big school" and life in general. But, that leaves me without his precious, little presence two mornings a week.

When Eli was little, his first word wasn't "Mama." It wasn't his second word, or his third word. As a matter of fact, it came pretty far down the list. He just didn't say it. Matt always teased that Eli didn't need to say "Mama" because he just thought he was part of me; that we were one and the same. He's my boy, for sure! Now, my boy is leaving my side two mornings a week and I'm feeling a little wistful.

This morning, we drove to preschool. Eli climbed out, new bookbag thrown over his little shoulders, and waltzed right in. He greeted his teacher with a "superhero" pose and without any hesitation, walked right in his classroom. I stood there holding tightly onto my Abel-baby, and called my boy back for a hug. He put his little arms around my neck, and spoke quickly into my ear, "I love you, Mama!" With that, he turned and headed to a table strewn with toy cars, leaving me standing there with tears filling my eyes. I squeezed my little Abel, and we walked to the car.

At 1:00, after a morning full of fun with Abel (and feeling a bit like I was missing something), I headed back to get Eli. I walked in to see him sitting with the other kiddos looking at books. He looked up, caught my eye, grinned, and ran into my arms...sigh! He told me about the fun he had, how he played in the gym, and had birthday cake. He told me about another Eli in his class, and kangaroos. He took me by the hand as we headed out, and I knew in my Mama's-heart that preschool is going to be great!!

Receiving Gifts

2011-12-26T08:03:00.001-05:00

Do you know your love language? Author Gary Chapman has written a series of books about 5 love languages, or your primary way of expressing and interpreting love. During one of our weekly date nights this past year, Matt and I took the test. You can take it, too--click here.

We discovered that Matt's love language is "receiving gifts." He's not materialistic and it doesn't mean he likes expensive gifts. He just likes to know that he was thought of and appreciates the love and effort behind gift-giving. A pack of post-it notes or a Reese's cup Christmas tree from a normal errand can express the same love as a much larger, more expensive gift given on a holiday.

Now, I must stop and say that "receiving gifts" is at the bottom of my list. I'm a "quality time" and "words of affirmation" girl. Since our love languages are different, I have to make an effort to show my love for him using his love language. It's much more natural for me to want to express love in the way I prefer to receive it. This makes the gift-giving holidays challenging, but fun.

Matt and I exchange stockings at Christmas time. This year, I was so excited about his gifts. I got a little creative! This is what my hubby received.

All his stocking stuffers had cheesy little tags on them. Just of example, the pens said, "you are stuPENdous" and the Riesens said, "I love you for so many RIESENS."

But, my favorite part of the gift was inspired by The Dating Divas (one of my favorite blogs). I preplanned a monthly date for each month of 2012. Each date is fairly inexpensive or even free (frisbee golf). I combined our love languages--quality time (me) and receiving gifts (Matt)! YAY!!

This picture gives you an example of some of the months.

And, a close up for details!!

Matt was very surprised and very loved this Christmas morning! And, I have to admit it was really fun to plan and execute this gift!

Happy Gift Giving!!

Joy to the World!

2011-12-24T11:15:00.000-05:00

Joy to the World, the Lord is come!

"For there is born to you today in the city of David a Savior, who is Christ the Lord." Luke 2:11

As you enjoy this wonderful Christmas season with your family and friends, I pray you have time to remember the reason for Christmas--the birth of Jesus Christ! My Savior came to earth in the humbleness of a stable. A baby who was born of God. A baby who would eventually die for my sins, and the sins of the world. What an amazing gift! Emmanuel--"God with us"!

Merry, merry Christmas!

"Hair Raising"

2011-12-22T21:42:00.000-05:00

Last night, Eli received this:

Today, Eli did this:

Yes, friends, that is indeed the "noise putty" in his hair. It was also in Abel's hair. Apparently, they were playing "shampoo." ~~UGH!!~~ FUN!!

Fortunately, this removes "noise putty" from hair with relative ease--thank goodness!

Of course, it makes sense as the label advertises, "Dawn helps save wildlife" and I'm pretty sure my kiddos fall into the wildlife category at this point!!

'Tis the Season

2011-12-13T21:58:00.005-05:00

In the midst of this busy, hectic, and sometimes stressful season, it's easy to get overwhelmed. It's easy to forget what this time of year is really all about. It's easy to slip into the let's-get-this-done-and-check-it-off-the-Christmas-must-do-list mindset. This year, I'm purposing to remember why we celebrate. I'm purposing be joyful. I'm purposing to slow down and enjoy each and every moment.

Disclaimer: If you see me out and about and I'm harried, rushed, stressed, or pulling my hair out, remind me about this blog post! Thanks so much in advance!

Morning at the Park

2011-12-02T14:30:00.000-05:00

A few days ago, Mema and PaPa joined us for a visit to the newly remodeled Pullen Park. We had such a great time on our outing. We rode the carousel and the train. The little boys rode the boats, and we played on all the playground equipment. The weather was perfect, with temperatures in the upper 60s. It was absolutely gorgeous for the end of November.

My parents are such a blessing. I'm amazed at what they'll try, even at their ages. When the grandkids are involved, there's not much they won't do if asked nicely. There's nothing like seeing your 67 year old mother and your 62 year old father on a see-saw! I've always heard that you're only as old as you feel and apparently they were feeling particularly young that day!

Here are a few pictures of the fun!

"Nobody can do for little children what grandparents do. Grandparents sort of sprinkle stardust over the lives of little children." ~Alex Haley

Family

2011-12-01T20:54:00.001-05:00

These are my children and my nieces and nephews--from left to right: Jacob, Josh, Christian, Wooten, Eli, Rebecca, Abel, and Anna Gracen. I was in high school when Wooten, the oldest, was born. He's 16 now. Are you kidding me?? How did that happen? Where did the time go?

I couldn't be more proud of each of them! They play sports, dance, do gymnastics, hunt, act, sing, text (teehee), and love each other. When they are all together, you can bet there will be some action. It's so fun to watch them enjoy one another and see their interests change as they get older. My littlest boys are much younger than the others, but they adore their older brother and cousins and get doted on.

Our family is close knit and I am unbelievably thankful for that. Not only are these good looking kiddos cousins, they are friends.

Family is such a blessing and together is a wonderful place to be!

Capturing Chaos

2011-11-25T18:59:00.001-05:00

Trying to get a good picture of all three boys requires quite a bit of patience and lots of outtakes!

But, in the end it's all worth it for these cuties!

We wish you much joy as we head into the most wonderful time of the year!!

Play nicely

2011-11-22T14:00:00.001-05:00

The "little boys" (our pet name for Eli and Abel collectively) are only 25 months apart in age. I've always prayed and hoped that their close proximity in age would allow them to be great friends. I want them to play chase, wrestle, share secrets, trade jokes, and just love on each other. The reality is that they are brothers who do indeed love each other. They are brothers who do play nicely together...sometimes. Many times, I mediate and referee as they play together, encouraging them to be kind to one another.

I never dreamed that my days would be filled with phrases such as, "Do not put your body on top of your brother's head!" Or, "Please don't body check your brother!" Maybe even, "He wouldn't pull your hair, if you didn't put your head in his lap!" And occasionally, "Why are you both naked?" Alas, parenting these little boys is nothing short of an adventure! So, anytime I catch them playing together nicely, it makes my heart sing. Capturing it on camera is a rarity, but yesterday was success!! I'm not sure where they were going, but they were headed there together!

"Of all the things I have to play, I'd choose my brother any day!"

Basket full...

2011-11-18T15:00:00.000-05:00

...of fun!!

I See You!!

2011-11-16T20:00:00.000-05:00

Here's proof that this little boy can have fun anywhere! Paint roller binoculars, anyone?

Great Joy

2011-11-15T21:06:00.001-05:00

This past week, Jacob and the other students at church worked to assemble and wrap 187 shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child. OCC's mission is to demonstrate God's love in a tangible way to needy children around the world, and together with the local church worldwide, to share the Good News of Jesus Christ.

Prior to the packing party, we set off to do some shopping for the shoebox stuffers. Matt and I committed to donate $27 ($20 towards stuffers and $7 for shipping) for this service project, so I reminded Jacob as we were shopping to keep our budget in mind. Much to my surprise, he let me know that he brought along some extra money from his own wallet, so that he wouldn't be limited.

We are a giving family--I keep canned goods in the van for local homeless people, we send care packages to our Marines, we donate to various charities, and we give to the local church--yet, I am in awe of the giving spirit of our precious twelve-year old boy! So many students his age are all about self, and we all fall into that thought pattern once in a while, but our Jacob really has a heart for others, and I couldn't be more proud!

Getting a little help with the wrapping

Packing the goodies he chose for a needy little boy!

Experiencing the JOY of giving!

"I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth." 3 John 1:4

Veterans' Day Home Project

2011-11-11T20:15:00.001-05:00

Matt had today off in honor of Veterans' Day, so we decided to make the most of that and paint our living room. I've been staring at paint chips for over a month trying to choose a color that will look good with not only our furnishings, but also our honey oak trim and fireplace. I'm not a huge fan of the color of all the wood, but I certainly have no desire to paint over good woodwork, so it was tricky trying to pick the perfect paint color. I finally settled on "fresh bread." So, we shipped the kiddos off to Mema and PaPa's house for the day and got down to work. Although it's hard to tell from the photos (my photography skills won't win me any prizes), the color is a warm pale golden color and I. LOVE. IT!!

So thankful for a productive day with my amazing husband! I love spending time with him and having a "new" living room is just a bonus!

Huge thanks to Mema and PaPa for taking such great care of our boys and for always being willing to help and support us! You guys ROCK!

Making lunch and memories!

2011-11-10T20:16:00.000-05:00

For lunch, I thought it would be fun to have the little boys make their own pizzas. Here are some pictures from our time together in the kitchen.

Hmmmm...do you see a pattern in these pictures, or is it just me? Some for the pizza, some for me, some for the pizza, some for me! I'm thinking I should serve an appetizer next time!

World Changers

2011-11-09T22:19:00.003-05:00

"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed people can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has." ~Margaret Meade

One of those days!

2011-11-07T12:47:00.001-05:00

Have you ever had one of those days?

This morning, I had all kinds of plans. I even posted my scheduled productivity on Facebook. Then, life happened.

I was awakened (on my day to "sleep in") to a crying baby who has a cold and had taken a spill, hitting the table. We left home to run a few errands. At the grocery store we picked up a few essentials. When I dug in the diaper bag to grab my wallet to pay, I discovered it wasn't there. Really?!? Our next scheduled stop was the gas station, since our gas light was lit. I scrounged up $4 in "emergency drink/snack" funds hidden in the van to avoid completely running out of gas. Apparently, $4 doesn't make the gas light go off in a minivan! UGH!!! On the way home the kids fought over the balloon--yes, there was only one--we got from the grocery store. While I put away the groceries and folded a load of clothes, the boys fought over the Nerf darts, the Nerf guns, who was touching who, and whatever little offense they could dream up. While I vacuumed, there was strife over who got to push the toy vacuum. We headed outside for a change of scenery and the sibling rivalry continued. I attempted to clean out the van and bashed me head on the ceiling. Give me a break!!!

Have you ever had one of those days?

I went to the bathroom (with the door open, of course, because I must be ready at any moment, even the most private ones, to step in and save the day) and tried to get a grip on things. I sat there and felt sorry for myself. I doubted my parenting ability. I pondered what a failure I had been so far today. Even as I heard the children starting in with each other again, I wondered if I could do it. Oh boy, did I throw a pity party.

Then I felt that gentle nudge! That reminder that I'm not doing this alone. That reminder that I can't do this alone. And, I gave it to Him. "God, I can't do this. They're really pushing my buttons. I don't know what to do next. I need You to help me!" That peace that passes all understanding never ceases to amaze me. The short-fuse, the frustration, the anger, the helplessness, the defeat was gone! I stepped out of the bathroom refreshed and took on the rest of my morning, with my God by my side. He's always with me. I just have to pause and acknowledge His presence. I have to stop trying to do it all by myself! What a blessing to know that I'm not alone!

So, have you ever had one of those days? Of course, we all have! But, today I was reminded that I'm not struggling alone. I don't have to walk around defeated. I am a child of God!! So, look out Monday afternoon, here WE come!

Praise with me? (Eli's step of faith)

2011-11-04T13:44:00.000-04:00

As we were running errands Monday morning, Eli asked from the backseat, "Mama, will you praise with me?" I assured him that I would love to praise with him and asked if he wanted to sing to God. He looked a little confused (in my rearview mirror), so I asked him what he wanted to do. He said, "What does praise mean?" I explained how we can tell God how wonderful he is with our words, or our hands, or singing songs. "Well, Mama, I want to ask Jesus to be my friend," he replied. It caused me to pause a minute, but I told him that Jesus is our friend and reminded him that He loves us so much! Then, Eli said, "Well, I want to ask him." Without hesitation, he asked aloud, "Jesus, will you be my friend?" Then he looked at me smiling and pointing to his chest, and told me, "Now, He's in my heart!"

Well, Praise God and WOW!!

Although we've talked about Jesus living in our hearts, we've never walked him through the "process" so to speak. Since he's three and a half, which is quite young to understand salvation, I went to some church staff and leaders with this exciting news to hear their thoughts and advice. It's such a blessing to be under their leadership and wisdom. They were so helpful!

I'm so excited that Eli has taken this first step of faith and chosen to make his relationship with Christ his own. His asking Jesus to be his friend is laying the foundation for his Christian walk. As he gets older and his understanding of his sinful nature and need for a Savior expands, he may choose to re-commit his life to Christ and be baptized. Until then, we will just continue to guide him as he grows in the Lord.

Giving God all the glory that this little guy made a new friend this week!

The best friend he could ever have!

Building Blocks

2011-11-03T14:38:00.000-04:00

While Eli does his workboxes for "school," Abel plays with learning toys. On Monday, I gave him wooden blocks to play with. Confession: The preschool teacher in me really wanted to see where he scored on the "block tower building" portion of the Brigance Scales. I modeled building a "tall" tower, then gave Abel the blocks to play with. He had so much fun stacking blocks and watching them topple! I turned my attention to Eli and when I looked back, I caught this cute little sequence. Not only was he having a great time, but he built a seven-block tower without any help!! Yay, Abel! It is such a blessing to be home with my boys!

A Halloween Treat

2011-11-01T12:53:00.000-04:00

Last night was Halloween night, and I had two little boys itching to trick or treat. It was cold and raining, which just doesn't go well with walking door to door with a one year old and a three year old. You could easily say that I wasn't looking forward to trick or treating, so when I ran out to my WW meeting to weigh in and discovered very few lit porch lights, I wasn't disappointed.

While waiting at my meeting, I had time to think. It was then I remembered that Halloween and trick or treating isn't about me and I knew two little boys who would be very disappointed that the porch lights were off. I pondered the idea of loading them in the van to travel our neighborhood, but the idea of loading and unloading two children who require help at every house just didn't seem worth the effort. On my drive home, I began to feel sad for my little ones, then I pulled into our cul-de-sac. Let me just say that my cul-de-sac neighbors are the BEST! Not only were all their porch lights on, but I quickly realized we could hit just these houses, visit with good friends, get the all-important goodies, never leave the cul-de-sac, and have two very happy boys!

With the covering of two umbrellas (one of which we snagged from the Little Tikes picnic table--I know, I know), we loaded the wagon and happily hit the cul-de-sac. Our beloved cul-de-sac!

Trunk or Treat

2011-10-27T15:03:00.000-04:00

Yesterday was "Trunk or Treat" at our church. With food, games, fun, and candy, we just couldn't go wrong. We had a family costume theme--Zany Zoo. The little boys were a tiger and a zebra, and Matt and I dressed as zookeepers. As a mom to three boys, zookeeper is a role I feel quite comfortable in. The boys' costumes were handmade with black zip up hoodies, sweatpants, and colored duct tape--cheap, easy, and super cute! I snagged the "zookeeper" khaki shirts from Goodwill for a measly $6, made some name badges, and we were good to go! Jacob, his mom, stepdad, and siblings joined us and it was a wild, but super fun time. Here are a few photos from our adventure!

"Mama-Zookeeper" (as Eli called me) and the wild animals

Precious little zebra mane

This tiger is "grrrrreat!"

"Let me outta this cage!"

I just want to tickle his whiskers

Sloan Family Zoo

(Last 3 photos courtesy of Niki Wilbanks--thanks!!)

Pressing on...update from last post!

2011-10-23T20:58:00.005-04:00

If you read my last post, you know what's been going on. Just when we thought things had calmed down...

Update: When we arrived home from church tonight, we discovered that the dogs had raided the pantry and proceeded to help themselves to 3 full packages of Lance crackers. That's 18 packs of nabs, 108 cracker sandwiches! Really, dogs!?! My kitchen floor is a wreck...hands-and-knees-cleaning type of wreck. I'm reminding myself of my earlier words, "we'll get through each of these things one by one" but this one will have to wait until tomorrow!

Pressing on

2011-10-23T15:33:00.002-04:00

I love Sunday afternoons. Refreshed from church, I can just sit and relax. Boy, do I need some relaxing today. This has been one wild weekend.

Here's the rundown of what's gone on:

the oven stopped working--which isn't terrible news since the stovetop works and I love my crockpot. However, it really makes my prior commitment to make a cake and some baked goods for "Trunk or Treat" at church a challenge!
Eva had a seizure and we spent yesterday afternoon at the emergency vet rather than the State Fair as planned. Eva seems to be fine now. The doctors have no conclusive diagnosis and we pray it was just an isolated and random event. I'm thankful for that but oh, how I mourn the loss of that funnel cake and the kiddie rides!!
the "check engine" and two other dash lights lit up on our van. And let's not forget the AC went out last Sunday and we are currently a one-car family. On the bright side, the lights were not lit on the way to church this morning. So, hopefully the dashboard will stay dark!
Eli had "yucky dreams" last night and Matt and I were in his room no less than 9 times during his 10-hour night's sleep! We still made it to church on time thanks to coffee and Coke Zero!

Whew! That sounds like so much. But, I have to admit, despite all those "situations" I'm not stressed. I know that God's in control and we'll get through each of these things one by one. I know we are blessed far beyond what others have. I have an amazing husband, fabulous kiddos, and a supportive family and together, through Christ, we can do all things! So, we press on trusting in and leaning on Him. And I boldly say, I can't wait to see what this week holds for the Sloans!

Be blessed!

A visit to "Far, Far Away"

2011-10-17T14:10:00.000-04:00

We just returned from a visit with Matt's family and had a very nice time visiting and catching up. The nine grandchildren range in age from 10 months to 12 years old, which makes for a very busy house when we are all in for a visit. Unfortunately, due to the distance, we don't get to see them very often, and I just love watching the children reunite and enjoy each other--not to mention the adults!

The timing of this visit allowed for some pumpkin carving fun. The kids had a great time scooping and carving and being together. The daddies and mommies looked like they had lots of fun helping, too!

(Simply amazed they are all smiling...sort of!)

As I said, the visit was great. The traveling, well it wasn't so great. There's nothing like 11 hours one-way with three kiddos in a confined space! Eli summarized the trip by using a "Shrek" reference and saying "Pappy lives far, far away!!" The travel fun was topped off by the van's AC going out on the return trip. Needless to say, we are thankful for the impending fall weather! Looking on the bright side, we had safe travels and a wonderful visit and for that we are grateful!

My guys

2011-10-10T22:41:00.002-04:00

When I see these four, my heart just overflows with love and gratitude. I'm truly blessed to be the wife and mother of this family.

You know I hate to brag, but my guys are pretty much the best!

A little less of me

2011-10-06T21:09:00.002-04:00

June 2010

October 2010

November 2010

All these are before pictures. They are all before I chose to make a change. You can read about that choice here. I can't believe these photos weren't deleted, but I'm thankful to have something to look back on--to see where I've been and how far I've come.

Last night I went to my WW meeting and heard the wonderful words, "You've hit your goal!" To say that I was excited would be an understatement of great proportions. I may have jumped up and down at the scale and possibly screamed just a little--maybe!! I have such a sense of accomplishment (and apparently very little shame)!

Now, I'm on the maintenance track--six weeks to learn how to maintain my goal weight and stop losing. To be honest, it's a little scary, but I'm ready.

This was taken in August, which was 4 pounds ago, but is the most recent full length photo I have. Here's to seeing a little less of me from now on!

Kickin' It!

2011-10-03T14:56:00.001-04:00

This little one started soccer recently. It seemed like a good match. He loves running and kicking. He also loves falling down, just for fun!

Watching three-year olds play soccer is interesting, to say the least. Essentially, it's packs of preschoolers chasing a ball. Last week, Eli scored a goal! Despite the fact that the goal was scored for the opposing team, I cheered--loudly! Yeah, apparently I'm "that" mom!

Of course, as with any activity with preschoolers, there are ups and downs. We try to have just as much fun on the sidelines waiting for another turn on the field--sometimes too much fun, since the kiddos often say "no" when asked if they want to have a turn playing. Those years of teaching preschool have come in quite handy!

Here's a picture of Eli putting the ball into play by kicking-off from mid-field. He was quite proud of himself.

Tonight, we hit the field again! Can't wait to see my little soccer player in action!

GO HUMMERS!

Pink for October

2011-10-01T10:52:00.001-04:00

In honor of breast cancer awareness month, this blog has gone pink!Breast cancer affects about 1 in 8 women in the US, including my mother, my aunt, and my cousin. Be proactive! Do monthly self-exams and ask you doctor about your need for a mammogram! It just may save your life.

Freely give

2011-09-29T15:11:00.001-04:00

Last night, Jacob had SWAT (students with a testimony) at church. I had choir practice. Afterwards, we met up to head home together. As he climbed into the van, I asked how his night was. He excitedly said, "I sent a kid in Guatemala to camp!" Since I wasn't quite sure what that meant--I mean I'm dealing with a tween here and sometimes it seems he is speaking a language I don't understand--I asked for some clarification. He went on to tell me that Ps. Grant told them about children in Guatemala. He explained that although going to camp here can be expensive, that it only costs about $25 to send a child in Guatemala to camp. So, Jacob told me that he put $31 in the offering. Sidenote: The extra dollar was so his buddy, who didn't bring any money to church, could give, too!

Needless to say, I was very impressed with his choice to give. However, rather than praising him and going on and on, I felt that this was an opportunity, so I pressed in. I asked Jacob what made him give. He responded that he "just felt like" he should. Oh, the sweet Holy Spirit! I explained to him that the gentle nudging he was feeling was the Holy Spirit moving, and that by giving, he was being obedient to God. My heart was so full, knowing that to our Jacob, that $31 was a big sacrifice. Yet, he willingly and obediently gave. And, with the smile on his face, I know he gave with a cheerful heart! I told him about God's promise to give back to us, to bless us, when we give to His kingdom. Being the funny kiddo that he is, he responded with, "I just hope that blessing doesn't come as another little brother or sister!" And, of course for a boy who has been blessed with one or the other for the past 4 years, I can't really blame him! :)

It's an wonderful thing to watch your children grow in the Lord. Nothing could have made me happier--not straight As, not a perfect ballgame. Knowing his heart is tender to God's voice is simply too much for words.

2011-09-28T14:37:00.002-04:00

Sometimes, it feels like I live with a bunch of turkeys!!

He's gonna be the death of me!

2011-09-26T13:49:00.000-04:00

This kiddo...

...is gonna be the death of me.

Since he was teeny-tiny, I knew he was trouble. He's never had fear. In his mind, the phrase, "you're too little" just doesn't apply to him. Perseverance and an "I think I can" attitude are the hallmark of his little personality. And keeping up with the big brothers, well that is a challenge he believes he is up for.

Yesterday, Abel, Eli, and I were getting ready to head upstairs for naptime. Holding Abel, I opened the gate at the bottom of the stairs only to realize that Abel's beloved "bunny bear" was still sitting in the middle of the living room floor. Eli headed on up the stairs. I put Abel down and trotted over to grab "bunny bear." As I turned around, I realized Abel was no longer standing at the base of the stairs and felt that panic. Mamas, you know what I mean. I realized he followed Eli up the stairs. Then, I saw it--a flash of orange tumbling down the stairs. Oh, no! Oh, my gracious! I saw my baby log rolling down the last four stairs. Now, I only stepped into the living room, so I cognitively knew that he couldn't have fallen from very far up the stairs, but my mama's heart was so shaken. The "what ifs" started flying through my head. I was planning the quickest route to the ER. I was kicking myself for leaving him unattended. I swept my crying baby up and held him close. I quickly checked him over. He was fine--a little red mark on his nose, but he was fine! Thank you, God, my baby was fine! His mama, however, needed a little more time to be fine! :)

Of course, being the little Abel that he is, he cried only briefly before trying to get down from my arms to climb the stairs once again! I guess you can't keep a good toddler down!

One year older

2011-09-23T07:00:00.000-04:00

Happy Birthday to you

Happy Birthday, dear Jacob

Happy Birthday to you!

Dear Jacob, Happy birthday, Jakey! Today you turn 12. I didn't give you life, but I love you as if you were mine! Every year I say that time is flying by, but it warrants being repeated. Your childhood is quickly slipping away. 12 is that tricky age between childhood and the teenage years, where you're too old for some things and too young for others. You are learning who you are and I pray that as you work on that discovery, you remember who you are in Christ--you are His child, His chosen one, and dearly loved. Jacob, I want you to know that I am so proud of who you are choosing to be. Your kindness and leadership with your little brothers is so heart-warming. Your quirky sense of humor keeps me giggling. Your respect for others is admirable. Your joy is infectious. Your thirst for knowledge is refreshing. Your love is inspiring. Jacob I am so grateful that you are part of our family and pray that this twelfth year is amazing, just like you! Love!

Hide and Seek

2011-09-21T22:14:00.004-04:00

Ready or not...

...here I come!!

Let Him Eat Cake

2011-09-19T15:26:00.002-04:00

Jacob's birthday isn't until this Friday, but one of the benefits of being in a blended family is the opportunity to celebrate special occasions multiple times. So, the big 12th birthday celebration happened this past week at our home. As is the annual tradition, Jacob asked for cheesecake. He certainly got the "cheesecake lover" trait from his daddy, who makes that same request every February for his own birthday. This year's request was a chocolate swirl cheesecake and I threw in a chocolate crust for good luck! According to my boys, this cheesecake was a hit!!

Then, on Saturday, we celebrated with family and Jacob requested a carrot cake--I mean, he can't be expected to share the cheesecake, right?!? So, I headed back into the kitchen. I love to bake, but with my effort to lose weight, I haven't been baking at all. This past week was a great time to get to enjoy baking, then being able to share the end product rather than having it tempt me from the kitchen. I chose a new recipe that used baby food carrots and just 1/2 cup of shredded carrots. It certainly was easier than the old recipe that had me shredding 3 cups of carrots!! And, looking at Jacob's face in that picture, I think he was completely satisfied with the outcome!

Happy Early Birthday, Jacob! We love you!

Caught, not taught?

2011-09-15T15:01:00.002-04:00

Some days, I think all I do is train children. Now, I don't want to complain, because the reward of hearing someone compliment my children on their behavior is worth every minute of training! I firmly believe that it is my God-given responsibility to train my children and I do so purposefully. However, recently I've been pondering the phrase, "values are caught, not taught."

I have big dreams for my children and many of them involve the type of men I want them to become. I want them to be honest, loyal, generous, respectful, sincere, kind, and disciplined. More than anything, I want my boys to grow to be the amazing men that God has purposed them to be.

Boy, have I set myself up! Expecting those things from my boys means that I must be prepared to model those same behaviors and attitudes. I don't want to live in a home where the words, "Do as I say, not as I do" are a common phrase thrown around as an excuse.

Are values caught, not taught? I think it's a little of both. So, I am determined that not only will I train my children to be obedient, but I will strive to model those values that our family believes in. And, since I know that they watch every. little. thing. I do, I know they'll see it!

Diamonds are a boy's best friend--baseball diamonds

2011-09-13T13:53:00.001-04:00

Fall is almost here and that means "fall" baseball. This year, however, there was a time when we weren't so sure we'd be singing "Take Me Out to the Ballgame!" Jacob seriously considered going out for the middle school football team. As much as we wanted to encourage him to pursue a new endeavor, secretly, well...um...there was no hiding the fact that I wanted him to stick with baseball. He's not a super big kid, and has never played tackle football before. Not to mention, I just love baseball and he has so much experience since he's played for 10 seasons. After much deliberation and soul-searching, Jacob decided to choose baseball! This season he's on the Angels. Many of the same boys from last season are on his team again. They are having fun, even if they aren't winning. Jacob has enjoyed the opportunity to play lots of positions already this season. Just last night, he caught, played short stop, and center field. He's also pitched. I love that he's a flexible player and has the skills and quick thinking to play pretty much anywhere the coach puts him! Here are a few pictures I took at last night's game!

Let's go Angels!!

I remember

2011-09-11T21:30:00.000-04:00

Today, I went to church with my sweet family. I remembered.

Today, I talked to my mom on the phone. I remembered.

Today, I ran errands. I remembered.

Today, I went out to eat. I remembered.

Today, I played outside with my boys. I remembered.

Today, I baked pumpkin-chocolate chip muffins. I remembered.

So many others spent today remembering, too. They remember those they lost in the terror attacks. They remember those they lost as they fought to protect our country. They remember surviving.

All that remembering could bring on fear, grief, even despair. But, as a friend reminded me, even as we spend time remembering, we have this promise:

"My soul continually remembers it and is bowed down within me. But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." Lamentations 3:20-23

Today, I remember. Today, I have hope!

Thank you, Lord, for your love, mercy, and faithfulness! My hope is firmly planted in you!

School Days-preschool edition

2011-09-10T21:29:00.000-04:00

This past week, we embarked upon a new journey--homeschool preschool. Before my homemaking days, I taught preschool students on the autism spectrum. Can I just say that I love the early years!?! Toddler and preschool aged children are so excited about learning and discovering. Their little minds are like sponges and their questions never cease. I know the benefits of early education, so I really want to provide that for my children. At this point, homeschool preschool is the best fit.

I am schooling in a very flexible manner. Each weekday afternoon, we do a circle time with a story, the calendar activities, and a Bible memory verse. Then, Eli does four workboxes at the table. While Eli is working, Abel is playing with learning toys at the table, and I can be involved with both of them. One of my favorite aspects of this setup is knowing that if we want to visit PaPa and Mema, or have a "field trip" to the park or Farmer's Market, then we just don't have school that day. No big deal!

School got off to a great start this week. Here are a few pictures from our first week of "school"!

Tropical Storm Eli

2011-09-09T14:26:00.000-04:00

BREAKING NEWS: Tropical Storm Eli made landfall in the front yard after naptime. The storm came in just east of the natural area with strong winds that battered anything not secured down. These are the images captured as Tropical Storm Eli toppled the play tent.

Fortunately, as you can see from the picture, there were no injuries. After surveying the damage, cleanup began. With everyone pitching in, it wasn't long until a sense of normalcy was returned to the front yard, where playing resumed and everyone was all smiles!

Around here, you just never know what the weather will be...

My 3 Sons...

2011-09-08T09:04:00.000-04:00

...are such an amazing blessing!

Little Brothers

2011-09-07T13:44:00.002-04:00

It's fall baseball time again and Jacob is back out on the field. On game days, the little brothers anxiously await game-time. Jacob gets geared up, we pack up the "little boy baseball stuff," load up in the van, and head on over to the baseball complex, where we meet up with Jacob's mom, stepdad, and his other siblings. While we try to enjoy watching Jacob and his team play, the little brothers (all of them) attempt to distract us with their "games" and shenanigans--not to mention the little sister who tries to distract us with her unbelievable cuteness. It is a bat-swinging, running and chasing, ball-throwing, lollipop-licking, rolling in the grass and dirt good time!! Here are a few pictures that Jacob's mom captured on a recent game-night and shared with me! Baseball and little brothers...a match made in heaven!

Reunited and it feels so good

2011-09-03T05:30:00.000-04:00

Everyday, the little boys anxiously await Jacob's return from school. Since we are usually outside in the afternoon anyway, we often head up the street to meet him as he walks home from the bus stop. Once they spot him coming over the top of the hill on our street, they take off to meet him. Eli stays so obediently in the grass...Abel, well, lets just say we still have some work to do on street safety! Nonetheless, my heart just overflows watching this happen. Parenting these boys and watching their relationships change and grow truly is a blessing!

"A brother is a friend given by nature." ~Jean Baptiste Legouve

2011-09-02T14:19:00.002-04:00

As a homemaker, I have so many opportunities to make the decision to answer "yes" or "no" to the questions posed by my little ones (and the big ones, too). Just a few examples...

"Can I have a moon pie?"
"Can we play in the water table?"
"soos" (translation: "Mama, will you put my shoes on my feet and take me outside, please?"
"Will you take us to see the horses?"
"Will you put the tent up?"
"Can you play catch?"
"Wanna play men with me?"
"soos"...again
"Can I wear my Cubbies vest?"
"buh" (translation: "Will you read this book to me, please?"
"Can we build with the couch cushions?"
"Can I serve myself?"
"soos"...yet, again

I really could go on and on, but I'll spare you.

Disclaimer: I feel that before I go, I must clarify that I don't believe in being a "yes-man". Of course, children need to learn to deal with the word "no". And, certainly there are times when "no" is the right and only response to a child--"Can I play with the lighter?" or "Can I play tackle football with my baby brother?" are obviously answered with a firm "no."

But, what about the "inconvenient questions"--the questions that would take more time, make a bigger mess, require MUCH more patience on my part, and/or simply would have me stop whatever grown-up activity I'm involved with to make it happen? It's those questions that I'm addressing today. Do I take the easy road? Am I hesitant to say "yes" due to a selfish reason? Ummm...do I have to answer that?

I want my kiddos to have a mom that says, "yes!" I want them to remember a childhood filled with happiness, messiness, fun, and adventure all involving their mom. So, starting today, I'm going to say "yes!" and it's going to be fun. Won't you join me and say, "yes," too?

A First Time for Everything

2011-08-30T21:55:00.001-04:00

Yesterday was filled with firsts for Eli. He started his morning with his first trip to the dentist's office. I can't say enough nice things about Dr. Artemis, Ms. Wendi and the staff at Scandalios Family Dentistry. Eli and I prepared for this big experience by watching "Ms. Cullen" from Cullen's ABCs. She has a great set of videos that helped Eli know what to expect. Here are some pictures of my brave Eli in the dentist chair!

Then, after a special lunch at the McDonald's with the Playland, a nap, and some dinner, we were off for the next first...Eli's first soccer practice with the YMCA. We have officially entered the land of parents-with-more-than-one-son-playing-sports. I've started to feel a bit faint when I pass the calendar hanging in our kitchen that is covered with all the fun things we do. Anyway...Eli was so excited and looked so cute in his cleats and shinguards. By the way, I just love what the YMCA stands for. Before practice, everyone recited the pledge and there was prayer! I must say that I'm proud to be affiliated with this organization! Ok, back to the actual soccer stuff. Eli seems to really understand what's going on in the game and as Matt so tactfully stated, "He's like Scout...ball-driven!" Sidebar: For those who don't know, Scout is one of our dogs. The weather was perfect. Abel had plenty of room to walk, run, and explore. Jacob enjoyed some quality time with a game on his iPod (hello, tween years!). And, Eli had a blast playing soccer with his teammates. Check out the fun!

Back to School!

2011-08-28T22:00:00.000-04:00

On Thursday, this one started seventh grade...

I must be wrong. There is absolutely no way he could already be in the middle of middle school. I feel like it was just yesterday that we were doing this.

And he looked like this.

Seventh grade?!? No, way! Of course, I can't stop time and even if I could, it certainly wouldn't be fair to him or me. I'd miss out on watching him turn into the man God purposed Him to be. And, what a blessing and responsibility it is to be a part of that journey! I pray that this will be a great school year for Jacob and our families--despite the 40 Book Challenge (a book per week, really?!?) and bus arrival time of 6:20am (Lord, help me)!

These two and I will be embarking on an exciting adventure, too.

Beginning the week after Labor Day, I'll be starting "preschool" and "totschool" at home with the little boys. I really feel like Eli is ready for some more structured (albeit loosely structured) learning experiences and Abel is along for the ride. I'm still working out all the kinks (how many days a week, organization of materials so they don't take over and make Daddy crazy, etc), and I have a little planning time remaining, but I can't wait to dive in and watch their little sponge-brains soak it all up.

And, just so we're not feeling left out, Matt and I are attending Sunday night "Life University" at church. We're studying the book Radical by David Platt. I think it's going to be an awesome time of growing in our walk with the Lord and can't wait to be challenged. I'm also attending a weekly morning women's Bible Study and I think it may just rock my world. The first chapter is "I Am Worn Out"! Ok, you're preaching to me already! I can't wait to not only learn what God's Word says about these challenges we face as women, but also to connect and make some new friendships!

So, here's to a great school year! I pray we will all learn and grow in these next 10 months!

A different perspective

2011-08-23T15:04:00.001-04:00

As you can tell from the picture, my life is often a chaotic, crazy, kid-wrangling adventure. Some days, it is absolutely wonderful and I am completely aware of how blessed I am. Other days, well...no so much! So that I don't feel alone in this homemaking journey, I try to connect with others that are choosing to stay home. One of the easiest ways I've found to do that is online. I have a plethora of websites that I love and even some great online friends all of whom encourage and uplift me as I daily try to fulfill the Lord's calling on my life.

One of my regular reads is "Passionate Homemaking" over at www.passionatehomemaking.com (obvious web address, I know, but you may want to link up!). Yesterday, the title of the post was "What Man Can Relate to a Stay-At-Home-Mom?" I clicked to read that one, quick, fast, and in-a-hurry! What followed was eye-opening and a perspective I doubt I would have gained on my own. So, for you other homemaker/stay-at-home-moms, read on and be encouraged!

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"What Man Can Relate to a Stay-At-Home-Mom? by Natalie Didlake--

I sat down and made a list of all the rigors of wife- and motherhood I could possibly think of. There are…A LOT!

Exhaustion
Feeling alone or isolated from the outside world
The struggle for regular, healthy rest and refreshment
Having too many things to do
Grief over your children’s rebellious hearts toward you and God, sometimes even frustration or anger
Changes in your physical body due to childbirth/care and age
The minute-by-minute flow of daily, constant demands
Loss of a sense of control over your life in general
Worries about the poor character you are passing on to your kids by example
Loss of a sense of usefulness in ways you used to enjoy
Loss of sleep
Loss of mental/emotional rest
Loss of time with husband
Loss of a sense that your husband relates to your experience as a wife/mother, perhaps feeling lonely/isolated even in your own home
Rejected and undervalued by our culture
General despair and frustration
Feeling distant from God because of all these imposed losses!

Whew! I’m ready for that list to be done. Won’t be re-reading that again! Too many of these hover over my head daily like a black Eeyore-cloud, following me everywhere I go.

There are so many days I can’t wait for my kids to nap so the house is quiet, for everybody to go to bed so I can take a break from meeting needs, sometimes…for everybody to grow up and leave!

I used to think the only one who really understood was a fellow mom. And, really, what help is that? A friend with 3 or 4 kids can’t do much but sympathize with my lack of sleep!

About a year ago, as I read through the gospels, I began noticing incidents in Jesus’ everyday life that startled me. Because they were very similar to the incidents that sometimes make my life sticky, as a stay-at-home-mom. So I started a list of all the troubles Jesus endured, all of them eventually culminating on the cross. Here it is:

Jesus was:

Underappreciated
Misunderstood
Exhausted
Physically worn down and destroyed
Rejected
His gifts and abilities were often ignored or discredited, and later totally rejected/wasted by the people who killed him
Cut off from friends, family, and the outside world
Bore the weight of the sins of the world, an impossibly huge demanding burden, on his shoulders, to hell for us.
Lost all rest, well-being, comfort, closeness to God (physically, spiritually, and emotionally)
Was rejected by his culture
Totally lost control of his life and circumstances
Felt total despair
Was totally alone

So, there is a man who understands! Even when I’m in the trenches, poopy diapers a-plenty, lack of time, running on zero sleep, with guests coming over to eat the dinner I haven’t cooked yet. The remarkable thing about Jesus was, he suffered stress, despair, and isolation, but not because he doubted God (like I do) and believed he had no choice but to deal with it alone (like me). He CHOSE to take it all on, so we wouldn’t have to.

Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us–for it is written, “Cursed is everyone who is hanged on a tree.” (Galatians 3:12)

More than before (since I made that list), my mind turns to Jesus when strain, stress, or tiredness creeps up on me. More than before, I don’t mind so much that it’s there. It crept up on Jesus, and he let it. He took it on for me. He understands! He’s is certainly my example for sacrificial motherhood, but oh so much more. His perfect love and life go on record for me. He’s my stand-in….better than a mom-friend!

What High Tide?

2011-08-20T14:48:00.000-04:00

Me: Hey, Mama! You might not want your chair there. The tide is coming in!

Mama: I'll be fine.

Mama: Ooooh, a little water--that's not too bad!

Mama: Whoa! Ok, ok! I'm fine! No big deal!

Mama: See, guys! I told you I'd be fine!

Mama: AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH!

Me: I told you the tide was coming in!

Hot Fun in the Summertime

2011-08-18T14:51:00.000-04:00

The Sloans have been vacationing! It looks kind of like this...

While we've been at the beach I have been overwhelmed by the work of our Lord. Taking some time to really slow down, spend tons of time with my family, and enjoy the gorgeous beach has brought about a whole new level of gratitude in my heart! I have amazing children, a fantastic marriage, loving parents, and a God who loves me enough to allow me to live this blessed life! My cup runneth over...I simply could not ask for more!

Marbles...YEAH!!!

2011-08-12T14:42:00.000-04:00

Every year, the little boys get a membership to Marbles Kids Museum as a Christmas gift. I must say it is the BEST gift ever! We don't need more things around this house, so this is the perfect "experience" gift for my active boys. Here are a couple of pictures from our visit this week. I forgot the "big" camera, so I used my iphone. Needless to say, I should read the manual and get a good app or two for taking iphone pictures. These just don't do my cuties and their fun justice.

See that last photo there? The one with the boys playing in the water. It was taken a few minutes after Eli climbed onto the adjacent waterfall/fountain pool and asked if he could get in. And, it was taken about 15 seconds before Abel made his first (and almost successful) attempt to climb right into the little "pond"! Yeah, we're from the country and we like it that way!

Precious littlest one

2011-08-09T14:26:00.001-04:00

Last night, Eli spent the night at Mema and PaPa's house with his sweet girl cousins and Jacob was back at his mom's for the week. That left our littlest, Abel, as an only child for the night. I had my Weight Watcher's meeting last night (down 38 pounds total) which gave Daddy and Abel some wonderful one-on-one time. This morning, I ran errands and went to the library with my precious youngest boy. Oh, how sweet that time was. It is rare to have alone time with Abel. He wakes up first, but shares a room with Eli, so both are usually up at the same time. Abel is the first to bed at night. His nap coincides with Eli's most days. This morning was a blessing. I was reminded of how much he is growing and how blessed I am to be his mama. He is the happiest and friendliest toddler I have ever known. I love watching him turn a stranger's frown to a smile with his wave and greeting. I mean, who could resist this kid??

This morning, we sang and clapped; we read books and did fingerplays; we shopped and talked. He brought joy to my busy world. God has entrusted me with the responsibility of training this little one up and I pray daily that He leads me as I do His work. I think it's just a bonus that this sweet little boy (and his two brothers) bless me daily as I answer His calling.

Yes, chef!!

2011-08-05T14:38:00.000-04:00

Jacob has taken a recent interest in cooking. Of course, I'm sure it has absolutely nothing to do with my obsession with, um, I mean fascination with all things food related on TV. In my dreams in which we have a DVR, mine is filled with "Top Chef," "Extreme Chef," "Chopped," "Restaurant: Impossible," "Iron Chef," "Rocco's Dinner Party," "The Great Food Truck Race"...

I'm sorry, where was I? Oh, that's right...Jacob and cooking. So, he's been asking to help in the kitchen and has proven to be an excellent sous chef. Recently, he decided to kick it up a notch (yes, the Emeril reference was intentional) and asked to prepare dinner alone. He cooked for his mom's family while on vacation, so it was time for him to take over our kitchen.

One of his favorite meals is our version of Shepherd's Pie and that was what he chose to prepare. Here are a few pictures of him at work as executive chef of the Sloan Diner.

It's a joy to foster my boys' interests, be it the Steelers, B-B guns, or cooking. And, wouldn't it be cool to turn on the TV one day and instead of Gordon Ramsay, Jamie Oliver, or Guy Fieri, we'd see Jacob Sloan?!?

By the way, dinner was deeee-licious!!

Crash and burn-part two with pics

2011-08-02T21:10:00.001-04:00

No credit is given to the old saying "once bitten, twice shy" around here. After dinner, we headed outside, only to replay the earlier events of the day (see previous post) and take another spill. It's simply a parent's worst nightmare. Abel, however, didn't seem too concerned. He's "Super Toddler"--faster than a speeding bullet, more powerful than a locomotive, and able to repeatedly fall down... Poor kiddo!

Since I was snapping, and everyone was together and getting along, I figured I'd try to capture all three boys. And, through the magic of photo editing, Abel's boo-boos don't look too bad! I'd say I've got some good looking sons!!

Crash and burn

2011-08-02T12:57:00.003-04:00

Since it wasn't outrageously hot this morning and since little Eli was feeling somewhat better (he's had a fever and felt icky since yesterday afternoon), we headed out to play in the yard. The boys ran and chased each other. We found some funny-looking bugs. Abel and I practiced "come here"--I am currently training this instruction. Eli played with some "ginormous" sticks. And, the boys played in the ditch at the top of the driveway.

For those who don't know, our driveway slopes fairly steeply from the street down to our home. Eli took off down the driveway toward the house and Abel wasn't far behind him. Abel picked up speed and I could see it coming. He was getting faster. The downward slope was outrunning him. Time slowed to a crawl. My legs were stuck in place. There was no way I could prevent it. Abel wiped out...in a really big way. He tried to catch himself, but the momentum was just too much. It looked like he just dove into the cement. I rushed to him and picked him up. Bless his heart! He looked like he had just scrubbed the left side of his face on the driveway. There were scrapes and some blood and lots of tears. Of course, I think some of his tears were because I told him we had to go inside. If you know Abel and his love for the outdoors, you completely understand that.

Once inside, he stopped crying (this kid is a bruiser with no drama--love it!), we cleaned it up and applied the cure-all that is Neosporin. And with that, Abel was over it. He was signing and asking for "outside!" Really, little guy?!? Do you remember wiping out face first into the driveway? Are you sure?

So, without hesitation, we were back in the yard with the boys running and chasing each other and all is again right with the world. Well, except for the "two-face" look that Abel will be sporting for the next few days!

An evening out

2011-07-31T21:53:00.000-04:00

We've been enduring some crazy hot temperatures recently. Yesterday was the ninth day this month that the temperature reached the triple-digit mark of 100 degrees or more, not counting the heat index! Let me tell you, that's hot! It's too hot to spend much time outside and with little boys who are bursting with energy, that creates a crisis of sorts. It certainly leads to some very imaginative ideas for releasing all that steam. Check out the fun the boys had with pool noodles!

Today we had some rain and some thunder and it seems that the storm brought along a much needed break from the sweltering heat. After dinner the outside temps had dipped all the way into the upper 70s! Whew! What do the Sloans do when the temperatures take a much needed break from the 100s? We go out. Outside, that is. So, we loaded up in the van and took off for the park. The boys had a great time swinging, sliding, climbing, running around, chasing each other, and just getting downright dirty! Thanking God for perfect weather for a perfect evening of playing outside!

"A boy is Truth with dirt on its face, Beauty with a cut on its finger, Wisdom with bubble gum in its hair, and the Hope of the future with a frog in its pocket" ~Arthur Godfrey

Why weight to celebrate?

2011-07-30T21:20:00.001-04:00

Today I celebrated early. I've been working hard toward a goal since Valentine's Day and I'm almost there.

Last fall I went to the OB/GYN for my usual yearly exam. I was already dreading the appointment. Men, forgive me, but all the ladies understand that this is not a highly anticipated get-together with the doctor! During my before-the-actual-poking-and-prodding sit down discussion in her office, the doctor mentioned that since I'm not getting any younger, it was recommended that I get a complete workup. So, following her advice, I had the complete workup along with aforementioned poking-and-prodding. Fun!

At the follow up visit, the doctor pointed out slightly elevated cholesterol and my more that slightly elevated weight! "Yea, doc...I know, I'm fluffy! I've had two babies. What do you want from me?" She discussed her concerns and I made exceptions and excuses in my head. As I left her office, I pushed it all to the back of my mind.

Well, I'm not sure about you, but when I push things to the back of my mind, they always seem to try to push their way back to the front. That nagging thought from the doctor's office, the clothes staring at me from the closet that were still too tight almost a year after delivering the second baby, and my general unhappiness with my reflection all lead up to what happened on Valentine's evening. At 6:30, I walked into my first Weight Watchers meeting. Five months and lots of hard work later, I am down 37 pounds; I'm 4.4 pounds from my goal; and those clothes that taunted me are now too big!

So, today I celebrated. Tired of the threat of pants falling to my knees, gathered waistbands from belts pulled super tight, and baggy, shapeless shirts, my mom and I went the outlet stores for some new threads in some smaller sizes. We hit the Eddie Bauer Outlet, the Bass Outlet, Ann Taylor Outlet, and more. I don't know about you, but this is what a weight loss celebration looks like for me.

Can I just say that the celebration was made all the sweeter when I got all that plus 4 pairs of underwear (not pictured--some things just aren't meant to be shared) and two candles for less than $200. Yeah, me!!

And, just a warning to those last 4.4 pounds: Don't get comfortable. You're on the way out!!

Making Memories

2011-07-28T14:13:00.000-04:00

"We do not remember days, we remember moments. The richness of life lies in memories we have forgotten."

I'm back to blogging because I made the decision that I didn't want to have so many forgotten memories. This is a great way to not only have a permanent record, but share it with friends and family! I mean, if we get to live this amazingly hilarious, super busy, unbelievably joyful, surprisingly entertaining, all-encompassing, and often overwhelming life, then by all means, we should share it with those we love!

My boys are growing up and my marriage is blossoming, and I don't want to miss a thing! So, be on the lookout for posts and pictures as I try to capture the ordinary everyday that is life with the Sloans!

Coming Soon...

2011-07-25T14:09:00.001-04:00

I've made the decision to give this blogging thing a try again. I'll be doing some housekeeping here on the blog and sprucing things up a bit over the next couple of days! Hang in there, I'll be posting again soon!

Here's looking at you, kid!

2010-09-23T01:00:00.000-04:00

When I met you, you were a super cute two year old little boy!

Today, you are an 11 year old young man!

It's been an whirlwind, and I've enjoyed every minute of it!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JACOB!

I LOVE YOU AND AM SO PROUD OF YOU!

Guessing Game-EDITED with answers!!

2010-09-15T20:50:00.000-04:00

Who's who? Here are some pictures of our "look-alike" cuties! Can you guess which pictures are of Eli and which are of Abel?

Eli

Eli

Abel

Eli

Abel

Eli

Abel

"The laughter of a child is the light of the home"

2010-08-27T12:26:00.003-04:00

the stuff that makes my heart sing from Jennifer Sloan on Vimeo.

Late July/Early August Update!

2010-08-15T21:40:00.003-04:00

Seems I'm not updating the blog very often, but for those of you who still take the time to check on us here, this is what's been going on.

*Jacob went to camp and on vacation with Matt's family! He had a great time both places!
*Eli has been wearing big boy pants for almost a month now (except for naps and bedtime). He's done great!
*Abel can roll over now, but doesn't do so very often.
*Jacob starts middle school next week! I can't believe it!
*Eli has some massive language skills, saying things like carbonation, pumpernickel, and obedient with ease. His sentences can stretch up to 9 or 10 words and if I don't quite understand his articulation, he'll actually rephrase or give me a reference point! Such a smart kid!
*Abel has two teeth already and loves to chew on his fists, fingers, hands, etc.
*Jacob started baseball practice this week. He's on the Orioles and we're hoping for a winning season!
*Eli makes us laugh. He learned the story of Jonah, so one day when he was being disobedient, I asked him about Jonah. "Remember Jonah? What did Jonah do?" He replied, "He wasn't obedient." I followed with, "and what happened to Jonah?" To which Eli responded, "He got swallowed by big fish!" So, I asked, "Do you want to be swallowed by a big fish?" Quickly, Eli exclaimed, "YES!" Oh, well!
*Abel loves to hang out in the Ergo carrier and the Baby Bjorn. He loves to be near us!
*Matt and I are enjoying our little family so much! We feel so blessed!

Here are some pictures of our recent fun!

Picture Updates!

2010-07-12T13:41:00.002-04:00

Honoring the Dads!

2010-06-20T21:01:00.005-04:00

Three men in my life are not only great people, but amazing dads. I am blessed to share life with each of them. So today, on Father's Day, I want to take the time to honor my hubby (aka the father of my children), my father, and my father-in-law!

I could not ask for a better partner to parent with! Matt is truly dedicated to our family and our boys. He takes the time to teach them, play with them, and honestly invest into their lives daily. He is a wonderful example for our boys and I am so thankful for him!

Little Eli couldn't resist and blew out PaPa's birthday candles before he even had a chance. I just love the look on my daddy's face. I saw that look so many times as a child. He's not quick to smile, but Daddy always had a smile for me. I am blessed to have a dad who loves my mom and loves his kids. I never had to question his love for me or his interest in my life and for that I am so grateful!

And, last but not least, I'd like to honor Matt's dad. He had the tough job of raising two teenage boys and a young daughter following the unexpected loss of his wife and their mother. It is my understanding that he did so with grace and love. His children are wonderful people and I am fortunate to share life with him!

I pray that God continues to bless these guys and I am so thankful to him for their presence in my life!

Moving on up!

2010-06-15T14:57:00.004-04:00

We've been busy celebrating the accomplishments of our boys recently. Jacob "graduated" from the fifth grade last week, Eli finished up his spring semester at The Little Gym, and Abel finally got his first tub bath (side story: Abel's belly button stump just didn't fall off on its own and had to be removed by the doctor when he was almost 8 weeks old). Here are some pictures from each event!

I am amazed at how much our boys are growing and changing...physically, emotionally, socially, cognitively, and spiritually! I am truly blessed to be parenting these gifts that God has entrusted me with. It is such a huge responsibility and I am honored to have this privilege.

"We do not remember days, we remember moments."

So, who is who??

2010-06-08T21:36:00.001-04:00

For those wondering, this should clear up any confusion from the previous post!!

Abel

Eli

Eli

Abel

Who's who?

2010-06-02T20:58:00.007-04:00

My youngest two look sooooo much alike! Can you tell which is which??

Just because...

2010-06-01T13:21:00.001-04:00

...he's so cute!

A month in review!

2010-05-26T14:35:00.009-04:00

So, I don't blog as frequently as I used to! So sorry! I'll take a few minutes (which is usually all I have now with 3 kiddos) to update what's been going on around here.

*Jacob's baseball games and practice 3 times a week-he's doing great and has had the opportunity to grow in multiple positions. He's played catcher, first base, short stop, and pitcher! He LOVES pitching!

*The end of the school year is just around the corner! HOORAY...no more carpool commutes!

*We went strawberry picking and picked 3 flats brimming over with berries!

*Eli has acquired a new athletic ability and can now hit a pitched ball. All I hear from that little guy is "Mama, take me outside? Hit the ball?"

*Abel is adjusting to life here in this crazy family. He's on the go with us everyday and handles it wonderfully!

*I've learned how to do the shopping cart train. I push the kiddos in one cart and pull the groceries in another!

*I've learned that slinging your baby will definitely get stares!! I've also learned that it makes life so much easier that I just don't care!!

*Jacob scored all 4s on his EOGs! So proud of that kid!

*Matt got an email from Jacob's Nonnie (his mom's mom) following a weekend he spent with them. She wanted to let us know that all weekend long, she never had to open a door for herself. I love that my husband is raising our boys to respect women and be gentlemen. BTW, I never have to open a door, either!

*Eli's language is growing by leaps and bounds. He speaks in sentences and makes me laugh! I also learned that he listens to everything I say and WILL repeat it!

*Abel sleeps wonderfully! He drifts off around 8:30pm. Matt dreamfeeds him around midnight. Then, Abel sleeps until 4:30am when I feed him. He goes right back to sleep and wakes up around 7:30am. I LOVE IT!!!

*Matt and I celebrated our 5 year anniversary. I thank God for being the author of our love story...all those who know our story, know it wouldn't be possible without Him!

*My birthday is Saturday, so we are heading to the zoo on Friday to celebrate!

Well, that's all for now. Hopefully I'll be back before Christmas to post again! Love to you all!

Family Photo Shoot

2010-05-15T21:54:00.003-04:00

Despite the 95 degree weather, we recently headed outside for a family photo shoot with a super talented photographer. My college roommate (who also happens to still be one of my closest friends) has a great husband who is an amazing photographer. We met up at a local park and he took some beautiful photos of our little family. He also took some in our yard and at our house. Here's a slideshow of his excellent work.

Thanks, Richard Barlow Photography for making us look so good! We love you guys!

We welcome with love...

2010-04-09T16:31:00.003-04:00

Matthew Abel Sloan

Abel made his grand appearance only 7 short hours after my water broke. He came into the world at 9:57pm, weighing in at 8 pounds, 8 ounces, and measuring 21 inches long. His delivery was so quick and so smooth.

I arrived at the hospital around 5:00pm after a quick stop at the OB's office to confirm that my water had indeed broken. Matt stayed home with Eli until Mema and PaPa could get there. He met me at the hospital around 5:45. I was only having mild irritations and not strong contractions, so by 6:00 we were walking the halls to encourage some progress. After a few laps around the floor, I was obviously making some progress. We would be walking and talking one minute and two minutes later, I was stopping to work through a contraction. It was wonderful to have this labor progress naturally. I did opt for an epidural and one was administered around 8:45. By that time however, I was almost complete and ready to roll and with just a little work, Abel was born! We are so thankful for God's blessing!

Everything is going well as we get to know each other in the hospital. We will be discharged sometime tomorrow! I can't wait to get back home! Thanks so much for all the prayers and support! We love you guys!

Checked in

2010-04-08T18:39:00.002-04:00

We are officially checked in and ready to proceed. My water broke earlier this afternoon around 3:00...at the library! Yet one more reason to save the Southeast Regional Library...great memories!! So, we are hanging out in the hospital room and hallways waiting for Abel to make his grand appearance. We'll try to keep you posted here and on Facebook! Love to you all!

Birthday wishes

2010-04-02T13:24:00.007-04:00

To the man who bounced me on the bed and sang "Bye Baby Bunting," introduced me to donut holes and Sunkist for breakfast, acquainted me with wax paper on slides, made many salami, cheese, and ketchup sandwiches, took me to play Putt-Putt and then treated me to ice cream from the Creamery, coached me on keeping baseball stats, showed up for every performance, recital, skit, show, and presentation I was in, taught me to drive a stick-shift, encouraged me and supported me through four years of college, and now embraces me and my family with support, encouragement, kindness, and love...

Happy Birthday!!

I love you, Daddy!!

Stream of Consciousness and such!

2010-03-29T20:59:00.003-04:00

1. Finally a belly pic of me and Abel 2. It's Spring Break, so Jacob has no school this week...HOORAY!!! We get to stay home and play all week!!

3. Abel's due date is a week and a half away. I'm hoping the full moon tonight works some magic.

4. The weather is simply beautiful and we are spending so much time outside. I had no clue how much I missed being outside. I adore it!

5. Eli is certainly adjusting to being a two-year old. Now, not only is he full of energy and always wide open, but he also has a great need for independence and doing things "self". He's certainly got a stubborn streak...I wonder where he got that??

6. Matt and I are thoroughly enjoying the Wii that we purchased for Christmas. It's become a nightly ritual, and really is good quality time together. But, I'm staying up way too late!!

7. If Abel comes on Friday, he'll share a birthday with my Daddy! That would be an awesome birthday gift...I'd never be able to top it!

8. Jacob's getting a haircut tonight...I love fresh haircuts. I'll try to take a picture and post it soon. He's growing up so much and is so handsome! Look out, girls!

9. I ADORE MY FAMILY!!

10. COME ON, ABEL...WE CAN'T WAIT TO MEET YOU!

We'll keep you posted!

Brothers

2010-03-15T14:28:00.003-04:00

We recently bought new furniture and it took some time to get everything settled. So, one Saturday morning while Matt and I worked on the living room, Jacob took responsibility for Eli. I left them playing in the playroom. Before long, I heard them in the kitchen. I look in, and the photos below are what I see. Jacob not only planned some crafty fun, but also took charge of getting Eli in his chair! I was totally impressed and of course, touched. I am proud to have their finished product hanging on my refrigerator.

With their age difference, they just don't have much in common, but that hasn't seemed to affect their bond as brothers. They do all the things brothers do--chase each other around the house, play catch, wrestle, tickle, bicker and argue over toys, create chaos--and I am so thankful for all of it. Their relationship is truly a blessing!!

Party Pictures!

2010-03-01T13:48:00.002-05:00

We had a great time celebrating Eli's birthday this weekend. I think the Shrek 2 themed cake turned out pretty well, as did the dirt cake. Eli adored hearing "Happy Birthday" sung to him and did an awesome job blowing out the candle. He was so ready to taste the cake that he swiped a finger-full of icing as I was taking the cake to be cut! He was blessed with some fun presents and has already begun enjoying them! Thanks to all who made his day special! Here are some photos from the big party day!

Awesome worship!

2010-02-28T12:39:00.002-05:00

We sang this song for the first time this morning at church. I was so blessed by the lyrics, that I felt like sharing! What an awesome image to be resting on the chest, in the arms of our Savior!

Look who's two!!

2010-02-26T13:42:00.004-05:00

You've come a long way, baby!

I can't believe you are already two. It seem like just yesterday we were waiting for your arrival. You have been such a blessing to our family and I adore watching you grow, learn, and change everyday. You are so curious and full of life! I thank God for allowing me to have the privilege of being your mom and I pray that He continues to guide me as I do His work. You are so special, little boy and loved beyond measure!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ELI!

Belated birthday wishes!

2010-02-18T12:34:00.008-05:00

Things have been kind of busy around here, so unfortunately I missed posting about Matt's birthday. But, we certainly didn't miss celebrating it! As I've said before, I LOOOOOOOVE birthdays! So, we celebrated twice! Once with my family (with a chocolate/chocolate cake), and then with friends on SuperBowl Sunday (with chocolate chip cookie dough brownies). The weekend was so much fun! We even had a new family picture taken...thanks, PaPa!

Happy Belated Birthday, Matt! I love you so much and am sooooo thankful for you!

Almost Wordless Wednesday

2010-02-03T15:54:00.002-05:00

I had to take the time to write this one down.

Eli, without any provocation or persuasion, walked up to me, kissed my belly, said "kiss Abel," then went right back to playing. My heart melted!!

I love moments like those!

Wordless Wednesday

2010-02-03T10:30:00.000-05:00

It's snow fun!!

2010-02-02T12:22:00.000-05:00

It's winter weather time. The snow started Friday evening and continued into Saturday changing over to sleet. We've had fun playing in the snow the past couple of days. Jacob has been at his mom's house and has been dearly missed! Eli and Daddy really enjoyed sledding and attempting to build a snowman (unfortunately, our snow is too icy for that).

However, with all of the fun times, I must say that I'm officially done with the snow and ice and I'm ready for everything to melt. My cabin fever has reached an all new high and if I don't get out of the cul-de-sac soon things could get ugly. :)

Here are some cute pictures of the boys playing in the snow. Stay warm and enjoy!!

The Little Gym

2010-01-25T20:37:00.011-05:00

This past week was "Show Week" at the Little Gym. We were finishing up the semester and it was time for the kiddos to show off. Eli absolutely LOVES the Little Gym and so do I. It's a great opportunity for him to play with other kiddos (since he's home with me most of the time) and also a great opportunity for me to network with other moms (since I'm home with him most of the time)! He's really progressed over this semester and couldn't have done it without Ms. Jen, his teacher. Since he started the Little Gym about 20 weeks ago, he's learned to do a forward roll, hang from the bars, walk on the beam, "freeze", and follow a group. Balls, bubbles, and the routine (same class format, same songs) are also favorite activities at the Little Gym. I can't wait to start the new semester tomorrow! Here are some pictures from Show Week!

Wrap-up

2010-01-12T21:05:00.004-05:00

I've finally recovered from all the holiday fun and shenanigans, so I'm back. And, I'm going to try to post at least once a week, but I'm not making any promises!

Here's what's been going on:

*We had an unbelievably blessed holiday. We spent Christmas Day with my family here, then spent New Year's with Matt's family in PA. It was so nice to get to visit with everyone! I am truly grateful for our families and their support!

*I was completely surprised when Santa came left me the camera I asked for. THANKS!! :)

*I'll be 28 weeks pregnant tomorrow! Wow, that's like 7 months!! I've actually clipped coupons that don't expire until after baby Abel is due to arrive. OH, MY! (Since people have asked, I've registered for a few things we'll need for baby Abel at Target.)

*Eli and I have discovered the joy that is Marbles Kids Museum in Raleigh! It has become one of our favorite places. It's wonderful for my sanity on the really cold days when we can't get outside, and a bonus--it's 5 minutes from the Krispy Kreme!!

*Jacob is back in the swing of school, despite the fact that it's not his favorite place to be. He's loving the electric guitar he got for Christmas. It's taking his lessons to a whole 'nother level!

*Matt and I (with a little help from my parents) have successfully updated our kitchen ceiling and walls. Matt scraped the popcorn ceilings, stripped the wallpaper, we removed the glue, he patched and sanded, then we painted. Now, we just need the new cabinet hardware and new floors!! Can't wait!

Hope you are all doing well! Enjoy the slideshow...it's a bit long, so hang in there!

Merry Christmas!!

2009-12-23T20:20:00.004-05:00

Christmas Card '09

We hope you are able to take time to enjoy the Christmas season and celebrate the birth of our Savior with your family and friends!

What's in a name?

2009-12-17T20:44:00.004-05:00

After much contemplation, Matt and I reached an agreement on BabyBoy's name. His given name will be...

We'll call him by his middle name, Abel. It was a difficult decision, but I love the meaning of his name. Matthew, after his daddy, and meaning "Gift of God." Abel means "breath" and Abel was the first person in the Bible to please God after Adam and Eve fell out of His favor.

We can't wait to meet this little blessing in April!

Introducing...

2009-12-15T19:14:00.002-05:00

...Ella Carmen

This adorable baby girl is the brand new daughter of one of my bestest friends, Sammie and her hubby, Rich! She was born via C-section today at 2:11pm weighing in at 7 pounds, 2 ounces and measruing 20 inches. Mom and Baby are both doing well! I cannot wait to meet this precious new blessing!

Weekly Wrap Up #2

2009-12-12T13:13:00.006-05:00

This has a been a busy week.

Monday was my routine OB appointment. BabyBoy's heartbeat sounded awesome. He is growing and we're right on track. Everything looks great according to the docs!

Eli has the Little Gym on Tuesdays, and he's learning so much. He loves hanging from the bars, walking on the balance beam, and doing the group activities on the big red mat. His favorite parts are playing with balls, the parachute, and the AirTrack. It's so nice to have an outlet for the little guy's energy! On Tuesday afternoon, we all (Daddy even got off work early) went to get Jacob and take him to guitar lessons. While Jacob was at lessons, we did some quick Christmas shopping.

Wednesday was a nasty, rainy day, so Eli and I headed up the indoor playground at the mall. While we were there, we stopped by for a visit with Santa (aka Ho-ho). Eli was the only little one not crying on Santa's lap. He ran right up to him and hopped up on his lap. He sat there and stared at him. Too cute! We have a picture, but I haven't scanned it yet. I'll post it next week!

Jacob had a winter music concert at school on Thursday. He did great! His favorite parts were obvious by the big grin on his face. I'm so amazed at how big he is now. This is his last elementary school music concert!! WOW!!

Yesterday, Eli and I headed to Wilson to say a final goodbye to my grandmother's close friend and companion, Mr. Charles. He was almost 100 years old! He was a good man and we really enjoyed sharing life with him the past couple of years! He will be dearly missed.

And, finally...today is the family Christmas exchange. I can't wait! I absolutely love the holidays and the time spent with family. It's not about the gifts, but just a chance to be with those we love!

Enjoy the pictures and please forgive the quality. I'm hoping Santa brings me a camera (a Nikon Coolpix S620 or a Canon Powershot SX20 IS...or any other great camera as I am NOT a professional)! If Santa doesn't come through for me, maybe the stork will leave one when he drops off BabyBoy!

Have a blessed week!

Weekly (and a little more) WrapUp #1

2009-12-05T07:31:00.003-05:00

So, I've been horrible at posting on the blog. Especially since I've discovered the ease and simplicity of Facebook. With that, my new goal is to post here at least once a week in the form of a weekly wrapup. Hopefully this will keep everyone up to date and document BabyBoy's journey to the world.

*I started feeling BabyBoy moving around about two weeks ago. It is one of my favorite parts of pregnancy...well, until it gets uncomfortable!

*Eli is using more two- and three-word phrases now. He's changing everyday. I love staying home with him and watching him learn and grow. Despite the impending "twos," he is a joy and we have a blast together. He's even becoming a great helper...unloading the dishwasher, loading the washer and dryer, cleaning up toys, and holding the dustpan just to name a few

*BabyBoy has been named and we will announce that name as soon as we can let the whole family know first!

*Jacob is SOO excited about Christmas break. He can't wait to spend time with his family, near and far and get some time away from school.

*Matt is adjusting to his new position at Wells Fargo. It is different and sometimes a challenge, but his work ethic is amazing and he's trying to look at the bright side. We are blessed that he is in a much more stable position within the company and layoffs are no longer an impending risk

*Our lights are up and the house is decorated for Christmas. After some initial touchy moments that could have been very bad between Eli and the tree, we've come to a "one-finger-touch" agreement and things are good

*Bonus Sweet Moment: The boys were playing around Wedndesday night when they bumped heads. Jacob said, "owww!" So, Eli leaned over and kissed his "boo-boo" on his forehead. Awwwwww! I just love those moments

So, take care this week, and we'll catch up again soon!!

It's a...

2009-11-05T07:15:00.005-05:00

We are so pleased and grateful to announce that we are expecting a healthy baby...

...BOY!!

I know it's hard to decipher exactly what you're seeing in the ultrasound photo, but it's a close up of the profile of his head. He has his little fist up by his face as well. We are so thankful for the good report and so in love with him already!

Halloween Quick Pics

2009-10-31T22:17:00.008-04:00

Tonight we headed out as a family for some trick-or-treating fun! Matt and I were accompanied by a scarecrow and "Static Cling." Eli had an emergency costume change. He was scheduled to appear as a spider, but we discovered quickly that he treated his costume just as he does the poor daddy-long-legs that he finds in our yard...he tried to pull the legs off! So, after a quick re-do of his costume and a final stuffing of Jacob, we headed out. As we approached the first house, I talked to Eli about saying "trick or treat" and saying "thank you." Apparently during my lessons, I failed to mention that we don't get to actually go into each house we visit! We discovered his disappointment in the lack of getting-to-go-inside-each-and-every-house, with his outward disapproval. Oh, yes...my kiddo was the one who got his candy, said "thank you," then left screaming and crying because you didn't invite him in!! Following a couple of those embarrassing episodes (that were calmed only by the offer of a Smartie), Eli and Daddy headed home and Jacob and I tackled the rest of the neighborhood alone. Jacob got a bag full of candy and was happy with his loot! He had so much fun, he topped the night off by losing a tooth in a Milk Dud!

Happy Halloween!!

Pumpkin Patch

2009-10-21T21:24:00.007-04:00

After Jacob got out of school today, I took the boys to the pumpkin patch. We enjoyed a hayride and pumpkin picking, a maze, a train ride, feeding the animals, and lots of fun! By the end, I was pooped. Of course, I believe the boys could have played for another hour! I'm always amazed at the amount of energy these guys have! When we got home, I had to head back out for a meeting, so Matt helped them carve their pumpkins. All in all, it was a busy, but fun day!

Daddy's boys!

2009-10-19T20:51:00.004-04:00

These guys looked so cute together yesterday for Sunday afternoon football that I just had to take their picture--even though they are wearing Steelers jerseys :)

It's been awhile!!

2009-10-15T13:14:00.008-04:00

I haven't posted in quite a long time. So, here's a quick little idea of what's been going on around here. Please excuse the list form!

* I made pierogies from scratch.

*Jacob is enjoying football! He is quite the busy fifth grader! His guitar instructor raves about his progress and is hinting that Jacob needs an electric guitar. Jacob's been hinting at that, too! The BB gun he got for his birthday is a hit and he loves target practice in our backyard.

*Eli is growing and changing every day. We're down to one nap a day now, which was quite a transition and adjustment for us all!! He's still working hard on making it through the entire church service without the caregivers having to page us out of service. Matt says he inherited that "separation anxiety" gene from him. He's loving the Little Gym classes we enrolled him in. And, as always, he is thoroughly enjoying the outdoors and sports of ANY kind! Yes, my 19 month old already loves sports!

* Baby Sloan is growing. We're at 15 weeks now. Baby is about the size of an apple! We;ll have our next ultrasound in early November and will find out Baby's gender at that time! YEAH!! Matt is adamant that this one's a girl. I'm starting to believe him (especially since he was right about Jacob and Eli)!

* Matt is starting a new position within Wells Fargo on Monday. He's excited about this position, especially since it really seems to secure his employment with Wells. It will be an adjustment for us all as his hours will be changing. I've been blessed that his hours have been 6a-3p and he's been able to occupy the boys while I cook. Beginning Monday, his hours will be 8a-5p, so we'll either be eating later, or our boys will have to work on playing together, safely, alone!

* I'm doing well. I stay busy driving here, there, and everywhere for our family! I survived helping plan and execute the Fall Festival at Jacob's school. By the end of the day, I'm exhausted which I think is a combination of chasing around a VERY active 19 month old, and being pregnant.

Well, that's about all for now! Have a great day, friends!!

Look out, LeBron!!

2009-09-25T12:42:00.002-04:00

Recently, Eli has been really interested in dribbling balls. He's gotten quite good. Here's a video from a couple of days ago. If you count, you'll notice he dribble 4 times in a row. Well, now he's up to 6 or 7. Not too bad for an kiddo who's only 19 months old!!

Happy, happy birthday!!

2009-09-23T19:06:00.005-04:00

He's the one who can always make me laugh, has an endless number of questions to ask, gives unexpected and much appreciated hugs, loves to play with his baby brother, and is becoming more and more mature everyday!

Jacob turns 10 today! I can't believe it. It seems like just yesterday he was a little boy with a bowl cut tearing through the house. Now, he's a young man with a buzz cut tearing through the house!!!

It is such a blessing to be a part of his life and be witness to the amazing things that God is doing in His child! Jacob is a joy and a most definitely a gift.

Happy Birthday, Jake! We love you!